读高老头有感（一）

所有优秀的作家都程度不同地在作品中反映了自己的时代，巴尔扎克的与众不同之处是他不仅力图完整地再现他的时代。而且还要从纷纭复杂的表象中探明事物的内在联系，追溯这种种现象产生的根源，进而对社会弊端做出诊断和披露，以达到醒世和匡正世风的目的。巴尔扎克决定以小说形式来谱写当代历史的时候，便已经立足于对整个社会的研究。他不满足于表象的描绘，而是试图站在历史的高度，考察、研究和评判这个社会。

《高老头》这部小说，以1819年底到了1820年初为时代背景，从拉丁区与圣马尔索城关之间贫穷寒酸的小街陋巷，到圣日耳曼区的富丽堂皇的贵族府邸，为我们展示了一个令人眼花缭乱的巴黎社会，形形色色的人物，千奇百怪的现象，通过贫穷的贵族青年拉斯蒂涅做桥梁，天衣无缝地构成了一个有机整体，虽然头绪繁复，但紧凑集中。

小说的情节大致分两条线索展开。

第一条线索是高老头的故事。他是巴黎的一个面粉商人，靠投机把，囤积居奇等段发了大财。妻子去世后，他把全部感情都寄托在两个女儿身上了。他的一切，便是两个女儿，而且父爱绝对未受个人利害的玷污，持久不衰，广大无边。在父亲心目中，他的女儿永远美丽、纯洁，过去的一切，将来的一切，都能加强他的崇拜。他对女儿百依百顺，小小的15岁年纪，就她有了自己心爱的马车，她们要什么便会有什么，他让好她们受到当时上流社会的“良好教育”，大女儿娜齐嫁给了一个贵族，小女儿但斐嫁给了一个银行家。高老头除去自己的生活费用外，其余大部分家财都分给了女儿，仅嫁妆，每人就给了八十万法郎。无论如何，高老头都认为有两女儿攀上权贵作依靠，有一份爱心做纽带，他晚年的衣食不用愁。

高老头的故事并不是这部小说的主线，他那悲剧性的父爱也不是这部小说的主题，真正的主人公是另一条线索中所描述的关于伏盖公寓的一个房客，即从外省来巴黎闯荡的拉斯蒂涅，而真正的主题是拉斯蒂涅学习社会。

拉其蒂涅原是一个穷大学生，出身于外省没落的贵族家庭里。他的家人节衣缩食供他在巴黎读书，指望他有朝一日，凭自己的真才实学出人头地，飞黄腾达。不久，在花花世界里他就眼花缭乱起来，不能把握自己了。他抛弃了刻苦用功的念头，削尖脑袋往上爬。

在巴尔扎克以后的作品里，拉斯蒂涅的性格还有进一步的发展。他们通过各种手段，做了显赫的部长，成了有30万法郎进项的伯爵和法兰西上议院的议员，实现了他梦寐以求的心愿。拉斯蒂涅在巴尔扎克笔下，一开始并不是以老奸巨滑的面貌出现，而是以外省青年，受到过母亲、妹妹、朋友的纯真的爱的熏陶，具有几分童心的面貌出现，只有在巴黎社会的大染缸中，逐步完成他的教育，一步步染黑……这种安排反映出作者艺术匠心独到。

在《高老头》中，巴尔扎克不仅在构思剪裁上显示出他的大师手笔的宏大气魄，在细节选择上显出其洞观、剖析生活的深刻细致，而且在写作技巧上，也表现了他无与伦比的才能，尤其是人物塑造，都一个个栩栩如生，跃然纸上。如鲍赛昂夫人，虽落笔不多，但那名门出身，才情过人，气概非凡的大家风范，她的一举手一投足，给人的印象都十分深刻。尤其是她在敌不过别人才20万法郎年息的陪嫁的竞争，而满心凄苦地不得不向上流社会告别时，她的表情不露丝毫痛苦痕迹的描写，更让人吃惊。小名叫“鬼上当”的在逃犯伏脱冷，足智多谋，精明干练，豪爽豁达，玩世不恭，倔强不羁，他的一言一行，俨然闯荡江湖的绿林好汉的气派。特别是他在房客波阿雷和米旭波的暗算下被警方逮捕一场，写的惊心动魄，过目不忘，他从暴怒到冷静，脸上的表情只有一个譬如可以形容，“仿佛一口锅炉贮满了足以翻江倒海的水汽，一眨眼之间被一滴水化得无影无踪。”为追逐金钱、地位，干尽罪恶的勾当的拉斯蒂涅之流就很多，如银行家纽沁根，他用狡诈的办法，欺骗了几千户人家，最后自己捞到了百万家财，另一个银行家泰伊番，年青的时候杀死了一个富商，抢了他的财产，最后嫁祸于一个朋友。等等这些形象，使我们看到了金钱主宰下的资本主义社会丑恶的一面。

读高老头有感（二）

暑假读《高老头》，诚如作者所说，很难让读者相信小说有现实依据。两个受到溺爱的女儿，榨干了父亲的最后一滴血，却在父亲临死的时候忙于参加贵族的舞会；年轻的大学生在巴黎浮华的环境中逐渐改变了自己的本性，成为金钱主义的又一个牺牲者。看完整本小说，我都在想，这是真的吗？为了说明我的怀疑，还是先看看小说的故事情节吧。

《高老头》是《人间喜剧》的代表作之一，它分为伏盖公寓、两处访问、初见世面、玩命鬼、两个女儿和父亲的死六部分。小说以法国波旁王朝复辟时期的巴黎为背景，生动地描绘了资产阶级的日益得势，封建贵族阶级必然灭亡，突出揭示了资本主义社会的罪恶与肮脏有一个形象的认识。

一打开书，就被它惟妙惟肖还带有批判性的比喻句所吸引。《高老头》首先给我们描绘了一个典型环境----伏盖公寓----巴黎社会的一个角落。伏盖公寓是一栋廉价的宿舍，这里出现了典型人物高老头、伏脱冷、拉斯蒂涅……他们都是一些比较贫穷的小人物，在他们身上分明地体现了资本主义社会中金钱的影响力。作者采用倒叙的手法，高老头一点一点展现他的面目。看到他晚期的悲剧命运，很难想象他曾经非常有钱，还有两个漂亮、地位很高的女儿。高老头的遭遇是本书基本线索之一，高老头是个资产阶级暴发户，他利用投机手段倒卖面条发了大财。他非常疼爱女儿，花巨资将两个女儿送入上流社会，本以为女儿嫁了体面人家，自己便可以受到尊重、奉承。谁知不到两年，竟被赶出家门。随着高老头经济状况的变化，女儿女婿对他的态度也不断变化：由奉承到被撵出家门去住公寓；由减少接待吃饭次数到不许进家门。这说明了高老头的女儿爱的只是他的金钱！但可怜的高老头在弥留之际才认识到这一切。他在病床上怒吼，痛斥他的女儿，在这里赤裸裸的金钱关系已完全取代了父女关系。让人看了无比愤怒，无比心痛，在中国有句古话是：百善孝为先！人要是失去了这些几乎就等同于禽兽！资本主义的罪恶演绎到了极点！

青年拉斯蒂涅在社会的腐蚀下开始向上爬是又一条基本线索。他本是一位学法律的大学生，开始只想刻苦学习，将来做个法官。但他见到巴黎的社会现实后，他变了，他开始堕落，热切地追求权势和财富，他的表姐指引了他，作者也通过青年表姐之口，揭穿了贵族风雅的面具，揭露了他们的荒淫无耻、尔虞我诈和勾心斗角。而逃犯伏脱冷更赤裸裸地指点他：要靠腐蚀的手段，()像炮弹一样打进人群，就这样，拉斯蒂涅在社会的腐蚀和表姐、伏脱冷的教唆下他为了获取金钱和地位，拼了下去。拉斯蒂涅本性并不坏，他同情高老头的悲惨遭遇，帮助他，并自己出钱将其安葬。但在那样的环境下他左右不了自己的命运，近朱者赤近墨者黑，在目睹了高老头的惨死之后，他完成了自己的社会学教育，踏上了个人野心家的道路。一幅悲情的画面呈现在我们面前，剩下的只有无比的凄凉。

另外还有一些人物，如伏脱冷，都是值得我们好好体会的，他们的出现，不仅可以将拉斯蒂涅堕落的过程更好的铺开，也使我们更加认识到资本主义金钱观的罪恶。

高老头的命运是悲惨的，但那却经常发生在我们的周围。溺爱儿女的父母，最终却被儿女所抛弃。但这不仅仅是因为金钱的关系，而是那个社会所特有的环境。人性本善，但是环境改变着一个人。高老头的溺爱对女儿产生了负面的影响，但那个社会的环境，那些金钱至上、自私自利的思想才是让两个女儿如此对待父亲的根源。在金钱至上的社会中，亲情依赖于金钱来维系，这是罪恶的，可是谁来消灭金钱呢？高老头知道金钱的威力，但在女儿面前却忘记了这一点，高老头临死的时候对拉斯蒂涅说，如果我还有钱，她们就会来看我，喊我亲爱的父亲，他们就会在我的周围，看着我就像看着钱一样。我前面说的怀疑就在这里，高老头何其的精明，从雇工到老板，大发革命财，金钱的伟力他是最清楚的了，为何到了女儿那里，钱却失去了效应呢？答案也许只有一个，高老头崇尚着上流社会贵族的生活，可是自己却未能实现跻身上层社会的愿望，于是将这个希望转嫁给了女儿，希望他们进入上游社会后，自己也可以父以女荣。但是高老头忘了，那个社会金钱主宰着一切，也主宰着亲情。

拉斯蒂涅又是这个金钱社会的牺牲品，他追求的更多是权力，哪怕要他几天不吃饭，他也要买套新衣服雇辆新马车去上流社会显耀一翻。拉斯蒂涅在我们社会经常可见，有那么一类人，为了向上爬而不择手段，在向上爬的过程中，本性的纯洁荡然无存，剩下的只有那个社会特有的气质，是拜金主义，享乐主义还是权力主义，或是兼而有之，那要看各人的喜好了。拉斯蒂涅不可恨，在书中我们仍可以看到他本性的善良，对正义的追求，对罪恶的痛斥。可恨的是那个社会，将一切纯良的本性改变，变得污浊不堪。青年人应该有志向，伏脱冷说过每年有几百万像拉斯蒂涅这样的年轻人涌入巴黎，可是成功进入上流社会的却不足百分之一，选择上流社会，就是选择肮脏的金钱和不择手段地得到权力。社会如此，非你一人可以改变，中国古代的官场，宦海沉浮，没几个能洁身自好，为民请命，有的只是对那个社会的默认。环境改变着一个人，唯有将大环境改变，整个社会才有救。

《高老头》作为批判现实主义的力作，在任何时候都是值得我们深读的，从中我们得到的将不只是一次文学的熏陶，更多的是一种深重的思考。

高老头英文读后感

the sun setting, i pull the curtain aside and open the window, taking a deep breath, and feeling the vicissitudes of life.

be faced with he money, great father is worth of nothing.

at that time, money is the capitalist new signs of the times, and father is just something that when the patriarchal clan system residual feelings.

concerning father’s love corroded by money, what's left? sighing…

saddened by her solitude in the falling dusk, she is assailed by wind and rain. i never thought that, they decided to choose money instead of love. extreme egoism flooded all moral principles. father goriot's property was bled white and abandoned. originally the spoiling under the money is so heartbreaking.

he was glowing with pain and memory, always hiding in the lonely grave.

obedient just quietly indulgence, in exchange for you is just being betrayed.

father goriot still adhere to love them, as in the past, there is no reason, nor whether it is worthwhile, maybe, in his heart, so this is love.

the story happened in the past, but affects the future.

in our society, who are the only children in us, and it is groeing up in the doting parents’ love ? the same is the interpretation of love, at different times, what is the difference? as children, to accept the same care, what difference does it make? the same parents, giving this selfless care, and usually in the father goriot "refuse to realize one's error"?

it is often said, “this is the product of the society”。 yes, the society originated from the people, for people in the final analysis, it is still the problem! human nature on the one hand is missing, that led to all the problems of society the arch-criminal.

their son is of far-reaching.

i've seen in a magazine that a story:

kim was born in a rich family. a few years ago parents opened the gold mine and accumulated vast wealth, becoming the richest man in the village. rich family make little kim be spoiled, and develop a wayward character that she love leisure and hate labour. she learned to smoke, drink alcohol, and spend a lot of money. in the countryside, her monthly expense is two thousand yuan, let the other kids out of,. when she was lack of money, she would ask parents for money, sometime little criterion thousands, but sometime over ten thousand. once, she told a lie to his father for money to buy things, opening, father he gave her a stack of $100 bills, count for more than 20000 pieces, less than two months, she will spend it all. when her mother repeatedly reprimanded her for this, she became so bitter. but without money, she even collaborated with her cruel boyfriend to kill her mother.

until now, i still have a lingering fear. as a child, how can she kill her mother who raised her for 10 years? is the situation that some people are lack of human nature really so serious? i think this is a true portrayal of ＂father goriot＂in today's society.

maybe you are feeling better in today's society, the progress of the society. is there anybody that ever considered why tragedy in such a modern society is much more terrible than the chaos of the dark days in the old society?

i think that society is not the scapegoat of the dark and the stepping stone of tragedy!

i can still remember the time when i was seven years old. at the weekend, i go to grandma's house as usual. i hurry to eating lunch to rush down the stairs to play games with the children. an old man lived in the first floor with their own little yard with many flowers. then again at the spring, the flowers fill the yard. i don't know why, maybe possessive crazy filing my heart. no more hesitation and no longer afraid, i pick off the most beautiful flower. but when i get out off the yard, i fell down and crushed lots of flowers. i run away from the yard and go home. under mother's stern, i tell my mother the whole thing in detail after a few evasion .the thought of the coming armageddon was replaced by mother’s silence. she got up and pulled me, then went up to the old man’s home. i really fear the old man’s punishment. but it really surprised me much that the old men didn’t punish me .he gave me some flowers to prise my honest.

the road home seems to be long. along the way, my mother said to me a lot, and i kept nodding my small head .but i only remember that mother said such words: to be honest, be responsible; can not be greedy, can not be empty.

in hindsight, i know, this word express volumes. compared to the " father goriot " children, i was lucky. when i'm gone wrong in the prelude, there is mother’s diligently teachings wake me up. without being a spoiled and blindly condoned, i didn’t get increasingly fallen.()

perhaps, this is love.

to love is always delicately parallel with to be loved. wrong to give, will never be able to harvest the true. when love and being love are truly coordinated unification, you will understand the family growth.

you hold on your doting love and the indulgency make the end melancholy.

maybe, love…

高老头读后感英文

the sun setting, i pull the curtain aside and open the window, taking a deep breath, and feeling the vicissitudes of life.

be faced with he money, great father is worth of nothing.

at that time, money is the capitalist new signs of the times, and father is just something that when the patriarchal clan system residual feelings.

concerning father’s love corroded by money, what's left? sighing…

saddened by her solitude in the falling dusk, she is assailed by wind and rain. i never thought that, they decided to choose money instead of love. extreme egoism flooded all moral principles. father goriot's property was bled white and abandoned. originally the spoiling under the money is so heartbreaking.

he was glowing with pain and memory, always hiding in the lonely grave.

obedient just quietly indulgence, in exchange for you is just being betrayed.

father goriot still adhere to love them, as in the past, there is no reason, nor whether it is worthwhile, maybe, in his heart, so this is love.

the story happened in the past, but affects the future.

in our society, who are the only children in us, and it is groeing up in the doting parents’ love ? the same is the interpretation of love, at different times, what is the difference? as children, to accept the same care, what difference does it make? the same parents, giving this selfless care, and usually in the father goriot "refuse to realize one's error"?

it is often said, “this is the product of the society”。 yes, the society originated from the people, for people in the final analysis, it is still the problem! human nature on the one hand is missing, that led to all the problems of society the arch-criminal.

their son is of far-reaching.

i've seen in a magazine that a story:

kim was born in a rich family. a few years ago parents opened the gold mine and accumulated vast wealth, becoming the richest man in the village. rich family make little kim be spoiled, and develop a wayward character that she love leisure and hate labour. she learned to smoke, drink alcohol, and spend a lot of money. in the countryside, her monthly expense is two thousand yuan, let the other kids out of,. when she was lack of money, she would ask parents for money, sometime little criterion thousands, but sometime over ten thousand. once, she told a lie to his father for money to buy things, opening, father he gave her a stack of $100 bills, count for more than 20000 pieces, less than two months, she will spend it all. when her mother repeatedly reprimanded her for this, she became so bitter. but without money, she even collaborated with her cruel boyfriend to kill her mother.

until now, i still have a lingering fear. as a child, how can she kill her mother who raised her for 10 years? is the situation that some people are lack of human nature really so serious? i think this is a true portrayal of ＂father goriot＂in today's society.

maybe you are feeling better in today's society, the progress of the society. is there anybody that ever considered why tragedy in such a modern society is much more terrible than the chaos of the dark days in the old society?

i think that society is not the scapegoat of the dark and the stepping stone of tragedy!

i can still remember the time when i was seven years old. at the weekend, i go to grandma's house as usual. i hurry to eating lunch to rush down the stairs to play games with the children. an old man lived in the first floor with their own little yard with many flowers. then again at the spring, the flowers fill the yard. i don't know why, maybe possessive crazy filing my heart. no more hesitation and no longer afraid, i pick off the most beautiful flower. but when i get out off the yard, i fell down and crushed lots of flowers. i run away from the yard and go home. under mother's stern, i tell my mother the whole thing in detail after a few evasion .the thought of the coming armageddon was replaced by mother’s silence. she got up and pulled me, then went up to the old man’s home. i really fear the old man’s punishment. but it really surprised me much that the old men didn’t punish me .he gave me some flowers to prise my honest.

the road home seems to be long. along the way, my mother said to me a lot, and i kept nodding my small head .but i only remember that mother said such words: to be honest, be responsible; can not be greedy, can not be empty.

in hindsight, i know, this word express volumes. compared to the " father goriot " children, i was lucky. when i'm gone wrong in the prelude, there is mother’s diligently teachings wake me up. without being a spoiled and blindly condoned, i didn’t get increasingly fallen.

perhaps, this is love.

to love is always delicately parallel with to be loved. wrong to give, will never be able to harvest the true. when love and being love are truly coordinated unification, you will understand the family growth.

you hold on your doting love and the indulgency make the end melancholy.

maybe, love…

《高老头》读后感（一）

文/白珈羊

本篇文章主要以靠发战争财卖粮食起家的高里奥老头，为把女儿养大再给她们提供一个未来人生良好环境，而把自己变得一贫如洗的的父亲，但是只知道用金钱来维持父女关系的高老头到快临近死亡的边缘时，两个像“狼”一样的女儿也没有给自己的亲生父亲送葬。

从小就被父亲捧在手心里的女儿，娇惯、蛮横、成为了自私自利的拜金主义者，弄得自己也成为金钱的牺牲品。这是她所遭受的必然结果。若不是他对女儿的爱“荒谬到极点”，若不是为父爱所支配，他早已成为上流的资本主义家。

长大后，只知道不断榨取父亲的劳动成果的女儿，仍是用一种很习惯性的方法向父亲提一些，在我看来，非合理的条件，但是父亲依然对这种百看不厌的方式，所接受不合理的条件。此时，就暗示着他的一只脚迈进了伏盖公寓的大门，注定要从拥有百万富商走向社会最底层。

为了让她们跻身上流社会，他让她们从小接受良好教育，并且花了大半的家产将她们嫁入豪门，为获得女儿的好感，他出售了店铺，只身搬进伏盖公寓，为了替女儿还债，他当买了金银器皿和亡妻的遗物，出让了养老费弄得自己身无分文，最终凄惨的死在伏盖公寓的阁楼里，等等一切为她们所做的，也换回女儿的一星回报。

读过了书中盲目的父爱，我发现用金钱来维持的父女关系是根本不会长久的，也是禁不起任何小挫折。在这场亲情的游戏里面，高里奥老头扮演的父亲，就像永远明天的回报一样，操碎了心的父亲奄奄一息时，还惦念着女儿。这样的“父亲”谁曾遇到或看见过。

我真不知道，女儿的多次无情，难道还没伤透父亲的心吗？

揪心的父爱，你何时还回女儿的一丁点回报？

《高老头》读后感（二）

《高老头》是巴尔扎克《人间喜剧》中的代表作品论文把它比作19世纪法国社会的一幅全景画形象的展示了作家的文学艺术才能从思想和艺术两方面剖析了作品的成就并为之感慨。

《高老头》是巴尔扎克1834年发表的优秀作品小说以1819年底和1820年初为时代背景以伏盖公寓和鲍赛昂夫人的沙龙为舞台以高老头和拉丝蒂涅两个人物的平行而又交叉的故事为主要情节。

《高老头》体现了巴尔扎克的创作天赋有着极强的思想和艺术价值。《高老头》全书译成中文不到十八万字而其视野之广人物形象之多姿多采简直够得上一幅全景画卷它真实的再现了当时法国社会是一部"法国社会的风俗史""标志着一个时代".充分体现了巴尔扎克驾驭素材和提炼生活的能力。

这幅"风俗画"的背景就是十九世纪初的波旁复辟时期的法国社会这时候资本主义思想已经在西方社会产生了很大的影响而封建制度还没有退出历史舞台是封建宗法制社会过渡到资本主义社会这一新旧交替时期。《高老头》就对这一时期封建贵族权势的得而复失盛而复衰的历史趋势作了细致而深入的描写。

鲍赛昂夫人是"贵族社会的一个领袖"她的府邸是贵族住区"最有意思的地方"能在这金碧辉煌的客厅里露面就等于一纸阀阅世家的证书""一朝踏进了这个比任何社会都门禁森严的场所""就可以到处通行无阻".初出茅芦的拉斯蒂涅一旦被人提到"跟鲍赛昂太太是亲戚"立即就身价百倍资产阶级妇女以能挤进这个贵族沙龙为最大光荣。

这些贵族态度高傲谈及资产阶级妇女时极尽鄙夷挖苦之能事"那般中产阶级的妇女以为戴上我们的帽子就有了我们的风变".鲍赛昂夫人对高老头的二女但斐纳的评价是"动作都脱不了高里奥气".这是何等的盛气凌人。

但是表面的荣华富贵遮掩不住内心的失望颓唐排场上的阔绰掩饰不了政治上的败局。时代的变迁是无法挽留的资产阶级的进攻是不可抗拒的。巴尔扎克在描绘这花团锦簇的繁华盛世时就同时指出了潜藏着的危机预示了隐伏着的灾难。拉斯蒂涅被引进鲍府的时候鲍赛昂夫人已到了"被遗弃的关头"她骚动在心中的不安已经溢于言表"上流社会最可怕。

《高老头》读后感（三）

拉下晚霞的帘，推开黄昏的窗，深吸一口气，感慨人生沧桑。伟大的父爱在金钱下是那般一文不值。在那个年代，金钱是资本主义新时代的标记，而父爱只是过了时的宗法制残留的感情。对于金钱所腐蚀的父爱，剩下些什么？我只能叹息……

“已是黄昏独自愁，更著风和雨”。我未尝想过，在金钱与父爱的抉择中她们毅然选择的是金钱。极端利己主义淹没了一切道德原则。高老头的财物被榨干，终被抛弃，落得家破人亡。原来，金钱下的溺爱如此令人心碎。他生前的光辉带着痛苦与回忆，永远藏在那座孤独的坟墓中。一味的顺从只是悄然的放纵，换回的也终究只是背叛。

高老头依旧坚持着，坚持一如既往爱着她们，没有理由，也不存在是否值得，也许，在他心中，这便是爱。

故事发生在过去，而却影响着未来。

放眼看看现在，都是独生子女的我们，又何尝不是在父母的溺爱下长大？同样是爱，诠释在不同的年代，又有何差异？同样是子女，接受着相同的呵护，又有何分别？同样是父母，给予这无私的关怀，又何异于高老头的“执迷不悟”？

父母之爱子，则为之计深远。

还记得那年我七岁。周末如往常一样，去姥姥家看望。也许小孩子毕竟幼稚，我匆匆吃完午饭，赶着下楼和小朋友们做游戏。当时一楼有位爷爷，在自己的小院子里养了许多花卉，那时又恰值春季，可谓“繁枝容易纷纷落，嫩蕊商量细细开”。花儿鲜艳得刺眼，早已无心再游戏的我，凑到花儿边，感受着淡淡的花香，细数泥土的芬芳。

不知为何，占有欲疯狂充斥着我的内心。心头几番波澜，终究没有战胜心中那个贪婪的恶魔。不再犹豫，不再胆怯，我不以为然地伸出了双手，托住那最耀眼的一朵，一点一点地用力，生怕触破花儿那层薄薄的肌肤。看着花蕊渐渐脱落，丝丝喜悦挣扎在“罪恶”的双手中，伴随着最后一缕花丝的断裂。蹑手蹑脚回到家，怎料这异常的举动更像是欲盖弥彰。迫于母亲的严厉，几番回避后，还是一五一十道出了整件事。本以为即将到来的世界末日却被母亲片刻的沉默所取代。她起身拉我，随后便往那位爷爷家走去。()我当时真想双脚灌满铅，不再有片刻的移动。但对于母亲的坚决，怎样赖着不走都显得无济于事。她轻敲开那为爷爷家门，把事情完完整整说给了他听。我一直没抬头，我呆呆望着手心间散落的花粉，不知为何，心中竟还有点点窃喜！？一番交涉，母亲让我想爷爷认了错。我没想到，爷爷只是摸了摸我的头，轻轻笑了笑，便转身进屋了。

回家的路，似乎格外漫长。一路上，母亲对我说了好多，我不停点着自己的小脑袋，其实心里想的，还是那花儿妖娆的身子。我只依稀记得母亲说过这样一句话：做人要诚实，要有有责任心；不可贪，不可虚。

后来，我才明了，这句话的意味深长。比起“高老头”的儿女们，我是幸运的。当我在走向歧路的前奏里，被母亲的孜孜教诲唤醒。而没有被一味的溺爱，一味的纵容，落得愈发堕落，愈发沉沦。

也许，这是真正的爱。